Los Angeles Psychologist Yvonne Thomas, Ph.D. Quoted In “Psychologists On How To Have A Better Outlook In 2020” on theladders.com (12/31/2019)

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Give yourself credit

For some, it’s much easier to focus on the shortcomings rather than the successes of their year. Sure, you made some mistakes. Maybe you even fell a little short on some of your goals. But you also had some peaks and experiences that warrant a celebration. As Los Angeles psychologist Dr. Yvonne Thomas, Ph.D. explains, make time to recognize the progress you have made, no matter how big, small or medium-sized it may be. “People too often only notice what is negative in their lives or negative about themselves and can take for granted or diminish what they have achieved,” she continues. “So, give yourself credit where it is due and positively reinforce the healthy new ways you are thinking, feeling, and behaving. By doing this, you are motivating yourself to have more confidence and commitment to working towards and completing your goals.”

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Invest in yourself

You probably stow away cash in a retirement account. You also remember everyone’s birthday — and never forget to send a card. You’re the first to volunteer to help out with a social event at the office and always available when your friend needs an emergency vent session. But what about you? Dr. Thomas says it’s essential for professionals to carve out time (and finances) to invest in themselves. This means different things for everyone but these should be aspects of your routine that nurture and replenish you physically, cognitively and emotionally. “Exercise, meditation, and mindfulness are good for your body and help to deescalate feelings. Also, eating in a healthy way, drinking an adequate amount of water, sleeping enough, and having some down-time away from responsibilities and stress is essential in helping recharge your system,” she recommends.

To improve your brainpower (and thus, mood), she suggests crossword puzzles, new classes or even reading for knowledge. On an emotional level, build your tribe: people who will be by your side, no matter what.

Yvonne Thomas Ph.D. is a Los Angeles Psychologist. To read the full article “Psychologists on how to have a better outlook in 2020” visit theladders.com