Los Angeles Psychologist Yvonne Thomas, Ph.D. Interviewed In “You Think You’re A Good Listener, But You Could Be Better – Here’s How To Sharpen Your Listening Skills” on realsimple.com (04/08/2021)

There’s a difference between zingy, feels-just-right banter and talking over another person. While, in theory, finishing one another’s sentences seems romantic or like a great alignment between business partners, it can come across as having poor listening skills. That’s why psychologist Yvonne Thomas, PhD, says it’s best to keep your lips sealed until the other person has finished their thought. And yes, that means even if you have a big idea, a rebuttal, or something to add. It may feel natural to chime in, but you may actually change your tune or opinion if you actively listen. If you must, Thomas says to jot down your thought. “By doing this, it can calm and reassure you that you won’t forget your thoughts and feelings, and you may feel less stressed or pressured to interrupt.”